Sunday, June 8, 2008

Big Bad Blogger Challenge!! Day 3






Well the Big Bad Blogger challenge topic today is "What would you get rid of in your RL or SL?" I love SL and there is nothing I would get rid of. I understand that SL's medium is the computer and there are always bound to be problems on a computer. That's just the way things are! It does frustrate me when I can't log on when I really want to. But it eventually gets fixed. There are some things in SL that annoy me. I didn't like all the casinos but I never went to them either so they didn't really bother me. And now they are gone anyway! The sex clubs aren't really my thing either although I recognize that it's different strokes for different folks. (Eww....no pun intended) The wonderful thing about SL is that you can make it what you want.
There are some things in my RL that I would like to get rid of. Last year I got out of a very bad, poisonous and dangerous relationship. The major reason I got out of it was because I learned what real love is from my relationship with Rick. But I'd stayed with my ex-boyfriend for years and years and I always knew it was a bad relationship but I lied to myself and ignored it until SL finally helped to WAKE ME UP.
Things are so different for me now. For the first time in my life I'm with someone that I know loves me for who I am. I don't have to pretend or think before I say things. He knows me and loves me just the way I am. I still feel stupid sometimes for lying to myself for so long. I know everyone makes mistakes. But I still experience some of those bad feelings sometimes. I'd like to get rid of those. Rick helps me with that every day. Thoughts of worthlessness and stupidity aren't good or helpful. They don't help you grow. My wish is that I and everyone else can get rid of those bad feelings and see the beauty and the hope that there is in life. Here are some pictures from the river near our house. Rick and I love this place so much!

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